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    Question underdressing

    yesterday my wife and i were at the casino,she was playing some slots and some young guy came and sat down beside her and started playing the slot machine beside her.he was about 21,longer hair small hands,kind of small built,i just happened to look him over and noticed that his panties were above the waist band of his shorts.i dont know about anyone else,but when i am wearing panties under my drab clothes i am always aware of the waist band of my panties showing.how about you?

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    I definately do.

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    I agree. I underdress for me, not to entertain the public. And besides, I wear those nice nylon brief granny panties so if I am not careful, the waistband will show.

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    I am always aware when I'm underdressing. If I wanted people to know about my wearing lingerie, I would wear it on the outside.

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    Usually when I under dress it's panties and Hose so I am always aware of how high they may ride so I wear a longer shirt that day. Maybe this guy was trying to show the off, who knows.
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    Hummmm. Sounds like a variant of the 'pants on the ground' ghetto look. Just in feminine underclothes rather than boxers.

    When I under dress, I treat it as Robin under cover. Other than the stuff that protrudes, she flies pretty much under the radar.

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    I, too, am careful about what's showing. Pantys and bras.

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    I always ensure any under dressing does not show.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    I'm always paranoid about them showing. Always take into consideration where I'll be sitting throughout the day.

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    Hi Charlene,

    Underdressing is an everyday occurrence, it is for my benefit, and as such, I am always mindful of my shirttail. Besides, I can cause enough trouble on my own.

    Colleen
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    I used to be very aware of hiding my panties, god forbid if anyone saw them, I'd be ruined. Now I don't care, I wear panties everyday and have just gotten used to them, they are normal for me. If my pants ride low and my panties show, so what.

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    Years ago ''when'' I underdressed I was caught the same way twice! Now I dress full time and I am careful not to show my panties!
    If you don't like the way I'm livin', you just leave this long haired country girl alone:

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    Most of my panties ride well below my belt line but a few are pretty close. If they should show I wouldn't care......I'm usually wearing a bra and I know the outline of the straps can be seen thru most of my tops.....so not much difference.
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    My panties never show when I'm out, that would be distasteful.
    Although I am usually wearing 90-100% female clothing when I go out, no skirts or dresses because I don't "pass" and I don't have the nerve among other things!!
    One time a young girl noticed my shoes (a closed toe sandal style) and stockings but nothing was said to me. I think she did say somthing to her mother.

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    I under dress frequently and definitely ensure that nothing shows, especially my panties.

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    I believe that discretion is the way to lead ones life. The last thing that I want to see in others, is which phase of the moon is rising around their backside! Keep your undies choice to yourself and leave things up to others imagination.
    I like myself, regardless of the packaging that I may come in! It's what is on the inside of the package that counts!

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    I too am very careful what panties I wear with what type of pants I wear. If I am wearing my men's jeans to work I can get away with full briefs as they are covered. If I am wearing my girl jeans, i wear panties that don't show when I have the low rise jeans on.

    At least the guy didn't have a pair of thongs on with his butt crack showing.

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    I am Ana, hear me roar! 27th Jennifer's Avatar
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    I try to be, but my wife will notice them sticking out just a bit here and there. If I'm at work, and know that I will be performing tasks that will require a lot of bending, I try and wear something not so obvious (i.e. nothing pink or with a lace waistband).

    Ana

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    Like all of you, I don't want my panties showing. With some, I get little reminders all day that I'm wearing panties. That keeps me aware of my back side. But I have others that are so comfortable that I often forget that I have them on. That's when it gets dangerous.
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    I guess I'd rather see the waistband of his panty than the crack of his ass. I gave under dressing a try after reading how many on this site do it. I stopped because I forgot I even had any feminine clothing on under my guy jeans. When I did under dress I made sure my shirt tail was long enough to cover my panty and/or pantyhose. My wife always a nice girl does not show her underwear.

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    I don't want my underwear showing to anyone but my wife regardless of the gender I'm presenting.

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    I always do. I don't even own any more "mens underwear" any more. just panties of varying colors and types. I like wearing them so much more then the buly mens underwaer that nows feels like I am wearing diapers! Sometimes I wear an unstuffed bra too.

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    Regardless of gender, a proper gal (and guy) never shows their frillies in public....well, maybe at a club, ok, or if you need to hail a taxi during rush hour, a quick flip of the skirt could be beneficial...but otherwise...nope. There's a reason it's called "underwear"
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    stephanie47,my wife sounds a lot like yours,we both grew up when ladies did not show their undies in public,really i dont know understand why not.why do they make the undies so pretty and sexy if no one is supposed to see them.just one of themany questions in life,right?

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    thanks for the reminder, i better check if mine are showing now!!
    will my dream ever come true??

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