Hey girls...
I have a lot of questions but here is an update:
Crossdressed since young. Quit crossdressing for 7 years. I signed up for this forum a year ago in search of advice. I also dressed up fully a couple of times to see if I was making a mistake with quitting. I purged clothing and made the difficult decision to quit for good. A year later and I need to know if I am making the right choice. Should I continue to quit or should I crossdress (I want both). So, here are some questions that may help and are good for clueless crossdressers to know...
1) In a given week how many times do you dress? Out of that how many times do you go out? And if not, what do you do dressed at home?
2) Have your urges or need to crossdress increased more than normal as you have gotten older? At what age did you notice this?
3) Has being a crossdresser led you to a successful life or would you have been more successful financially, relationship wise, hobbies, etc. if you had not ever dressed? Has crossdressing been a distraction and by how much?
4) Do you have an accepting partner or wife? How many of you have ended up in divorces due to crossdressing?
5) ***If you only had $1000 to spend on what you desired right now either towards crossdressing or non crossdressing stuff, what would you use the money for? Would you buy more female clothes? Would you use it for a hobby or a lavish trip (without being able to dress)?
6) Are you ever satisfied with crossdressing? Do you constantly need to talk about dressing, dress up, go out, and explore more femininity?
7) Would you rather go out dressed en femme for a weekend or go out with all your male buddies and enjoy a night out (whatever it is one likes to do i.e. football, meeting girls, concert, etc.)?
8) Regardless if you enjoy dressing or not, if you really think of it all, would you choose to not be a crossdresser if you could?
Thanks for taking time to answer some or all of these questions. ***If you are likely to start a negative debate or more so an argument, don't contribute to this post please. Opinions are one thing being annoying and rude to others is another.
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Thank you.