Inevitable.
the reason why I have a dresser full of lingerie
After searching my lingerie drawers, I have come to the conclusion that they lied. Ruffles don't have ridges. At least mine don't.
Definitely a hobby for me
Off the top of my head, the first things that complete the statement is wonderful, fun, amazing, glorious, and scary
Bobbi
Aint nothin gonna happen that aint supposed too!
The earth is the mother of all people and all people should have equal rights upon it.
Chief Joseph
Nez Perce
“Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.” - Fred Rogers,
About as much fun as you can have with your clothes on.
H is my first thought. Nothing prompted me to do it or got me into it. It started as early as 4-5 and was just something I felt but not in a specific way. Just like when you are a kid you dont really focus on I feel like a boy or girl. You just simply enjoy playing with boy toys or girl toys. Its not intentional for me. Its just a part of my many facets that make me who I am.
i have to say it's inborn! a few yrs ago, i would have said weird, and ok to be kept quiet! but since ive come out, i have to just say this is me! i was born this was.... and its ok!!!
Fantastic! (With a smile)
Count me with those who said "Fun", well that's the first thing that naturally came to mind.
not the first thing that crossed my mind.
Hobby for me. Less than my other hobbies but something I enjoy when I dress up.
I pick e) OK no matter what, h) inborn, and g) learned in that order.
I'm inclined to think e) is obvious, h) is supported by science at least to some degree, and g) because the person inclined to crossdress may learn of the benefits and pitfalls of partaking, usually early in life, especially the pitfalls.
I have deliberately not read any responses before posting this.
In my case it is who I am and it began 70 years ago when I refused to wear boys underwear.
So it must be inborn but to me it is also a way of life. I can not see me changing now.
An inborn, strange, but wonderful part of life. That I'm glad is part of me.
Hugs,
Teddie
strange and then inborn, it is however who i am.
Now, with years of experience and acceptance, it's D (for me, no way I could pass...tho I wish I could), H (very helpful to know, even if at theory stages now), and J (enriching). When I was much younger, understood nothing about and felt very much alone in, definitely A and (very) F.
Knowledge and acceptance is power...
Kate
Hi Lorileah, If I have to explain it to you then you probably wouldn't understand it anyway.
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Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~......
I can explain it to you, But I can't comprehend it for you !
If at first you don't succeed, Then Skydiving isn't for you.
Be careful what you wish for, Once you ring a bell , you just can't Un-Ring it !! !!
crossdressing is something i do in drab.... i am Wendy and thats who i am... clouthing is a cover not who i am.....don't get me wrong being dressed femail is more the outside matching the inside ....
Can anyone honestly answer the first 3 without incriminating themselves?
[QUOTE=Lorileah;3316944]Be honest with yourself, you don't have to post your answers here but just think about it.
If the question was asked
"Crossdressing is..." how would you answer off the top of your head?
Would it be (and these are only for illustration)
a) wrong
b) sinful
c) perverted.
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Before I accepted who I am . . . Wrong, strange, perverted, sick . . . think a knife wielding Anthony Perkins in Psycho mentally disturbed.
Now that I am beginning to understand and accept . . . part of me, who I am, scary (this is a very scary thing to accept still).
Hugs
Isha
E, H and I for me.