Hi all,
Yesterday was another outing for me as I am cooking Thanksgiving dinner and needed a few items (okay a lot of items) as well as wine. My past outings I have kind of taken the caution of going early (less people and all). However, this time I had to go later to ensure the liquor store was open. Kind of put the Thanksgiving weekend thing in the back of my mind so when I showed up at the grocery store, it was really, really packed . That meant for the first time I was going to be under close scrutiny.
Now while from a distance I think I blend reasonably well, closer inspection will always be "yup dude in drag". So I took a breath, got out of the car (this was my first time wearing a dress in public so I was even more self-conscious (if you are interested in what I was wearing here is the link http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...ut-again-today).
Got to the store, got a cart and started. First two people I ran into read me immediately, I could tell by their expression (not a pleasant by the way). Had a few other stares (mainly by men who looked quite confused and slightly irritated). I had one women actually go out of her way to avoid me. But for the most part people didn't notice (more likely didn't care). I did have a lovely conversation with the young girl who checked out my groceries.
I have to admit, it was a bit of a bummer being read so easily but then again, I believe I will the topic of many a Thanksgiving Dinner this weekend . . . "Hey I was out getting groceries and guess what I saw ... "
So my question for you who go out (unless you pass 100 percent that is), does it bother you when you get read and if it does it ever dissipate the more you go out. Specifically, do you just get used to it and ignore the rude stares/giggles or learn to accept it as part of being.
Hugs
Isha