How does one know if they are just merely a crossdresser or if they are a transexual? I'm curious to know if others are struggling with this question or if perhaps it's an indicator that I am deffinately a transexual and trying to avoid it? Do some transexuals that have wives that they love that do not support transition use crossdressing to cope? Perhaps it's just a question of which is more important to me? My relationship with my wife or transitioning? I just don't want to hit old age and regret my choices.