Some of us underdress. Some dress fully, but only at home. Some step out, but only to support group meetings or safe places. Others may go out almost anywhere, but stop at permanent physical changes. Some pierce their ears, some get electrolysis, and a few of us may decide eventually to step into womanhood as much as medical practice can permit. These are just examples.
Do you have a boundary, and has it moved over time? Have your SO, job, family, and other circumstances set the boundary for you? Given the opportunity, would you take it further? Or, do you feel that you have reached a point of balance? If you are at some point of stasis, how did you reach it?
Personally, I draw the line at HRT and dressing in front of certain family members. Although I probably could take things further, I feel like I've reached more unity with my femme side since becoming more open about being trans, meeting others like me, and immersing myself in beauty school, where being different is perfectly normal.
Thanks for any insights or stories,
Ashley