Hi everybody
At the risk of this being a downer, I thought I would try to see what others may have regretted not doing in their lives as crossdressers.
Probably my major regret was in not having the courage to overcome my sense of possible humiliation by coming out to my mother when I was young. In retrospect, it appears that my mother knew all about my alterego but I always denied it to her whenever she would allude to it. She never came right out and asked me if I crossdressed. She was too kind and sensitive a human being to do that. She may also have been too frightened to actually acknowledge the truth. But, she passed along many hints to me about her being amenable to my crossdressing. Unfortunately, she passed away when I was 19. I always wonder about the road not taken. What might have happened if I had my mother's support all along? Having not taken up her suggestions, I was always left with the feeling that I should be ashamed for being who I was. It took me many years before I could be proud of myself as a transgendered person.
Are there others in this wonderful forum who are willing to share their regrets?
I look forward to hearing from you.
Love,
Abby