One typical insult my SO hurls in an argument is, "you're sick and weird. You need to get help!" Well, I have done exactly that--unbeknownst to her I have actually begun seeing a counselor every couple of weeks during my lunch time. By the way, she is fantastic! She has encouraged me by assuring me that the crossdressing aspect of my life is quite "normal." With that said, the counselor has suggested that I join a CD/TV/TG support group, and she was able to readily list a few--one of which is meeting this weekend. The gathering appears to be quite posh and professional. So, what's the problem????
My SO gets violently upset if I want to go out on my own, yet she goes where she wants whenever she wants. She attempts to arrange for my sole "approved" friends to come over if I am going to be home alone---all in order to ensure that I don't CD while she is out. I do not wish to lie about where I intend to go this weekend, but jeez I dont want to have a knock down drag out fight either. I'll discuss this with the counselor Friday as well, but a little free advice from my friends here couldn't hurt.
Thanks!
Cheers,
Jill
