I have been so stressed with school, and grading since I am a T.A. I really need a day just to relax. My wife wants an at home spa day when the semester is over I have never done anything like that as a guy I was always raised that doing things for yourself was selfish, my therapist has been trying to get me to understand I need time for me. Valarie wants to just let loose and relax, but my guy self has a hard time with that, what do you girls do to relax?