okay one if I ever told my dad to shut up, he would skin me alive with the splinters of the bathroom door, then force he would punish me.
Next Steph talk to your wife and tell her how you feel,
As for your sun, next week end, sit him down and tell him he won't leave the property until he has done all his mothers week end chores and if he tells you to screw your self keep to it, unless he's 18 you can punish him how you will,
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Sorry, but your kids behavior is unacceptable. You should have kicked in the door and grabbed him by the collar and dragged his ass to his mother and made him tell her that he was sorry and that he will never do that again then, I would have dragged his ass to the garage and have a little talk w/ junior.Originally Posted by Stephy
Definitely agree with others that this has nothing to do with crossdressing. You're still dad, no matter what, and you put your foot down on behavior like that. I have kids and love them to death, but we have rules. My kids used to crawl on our bar chairs and fall down because they were standing on them, which landed us in the emergency room. I laid down the law and said "there will be no standing on chairs." First kid broke the rules, got a spanking and time out. Now I only have to glare in their direction to stop them from standing on chairs.
My guess is you haven't controlled the small behaviors and they keep piling till you get these big explosions. Instead of getting angry at yourself, use your anger to help focus your mind on everything that lead up to the incident. You'll start finding lots of little "warning signs.' My kids used to get nutty in the evening and cause a racket, till I noticed certain triggers, and immediately stamped those out before it got out of hand.
-Jennifer
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