The absolutely worst thing for me is not being able to share my special part of me with anyone local. I live in such a strange place. I'm still not convinced that there isn't someone else close by to just play cards with, dress..share tips and stories over a glass of wine. But it is tough to feel so isolated sometimes. The other toughest part is to keep my darned hands off myself so I can just enjoy Jenny being Jenny without ending it too soon!!!!
Like many others who have already I posted, the worst thing for me is having to go back to drab. I especially hate it when I have to remove my pretty nail polish for just a few hours of being drab!
Hugs, Carole
Classic - I love it - definite LOL!Originally Posted by julia marie
I once walked into a restaurant (on my own) all ready with the female voice and coughed a very manly cough to clear my throat! Immediate warning to everyone present...
Christine x - more pics on Flickr http://www.flickr.com/photos/misschristinereid/
JennyLynn. You're not alone. I'm in a fairly small town with really rural communities all around. So, getting to CD accepting places means at least 90 minutes of driving each way. That does put some nasty limits on when I can go out in public as julia.
The worst thing about crossdressing is having to pad your hips. Wish I had natural girly hips.
It's a dilemna - it releases stress and creates stress. It's so good and it's so disruptive. For me these differences seem impossible to reconcile.
Not being able to when you want to - heavy sigh...
The worst thing is not being accepted for the way you are.
The worst thing about crossdressing is most people's ignorance about it.
The worst thing about crossdressing is having to revert back to drab mode. I wish I could always be dressed.
The worst thing about crossdressing is body hair management.
I agree having to put in hiding and not being able to dress 24/7.
being dressed and relaxing then having to run to bedrooom when grandkids knock on the door!
Having to hide everything away from the wife & all the family, who are not 'on board' at all. This confines my CD-ing to special days when no-one is around and the 'worst thing' is having to ensure that no trace of my activity has been left lying around as 'evidence' that I'm still 'at it'.
M.
Hiding it.
The worst thing is when friends say horrible things about a public figure's gender variance, and not being able to tell them they just insulted me to my face. I don't let it slide ever, but in their minds it's just another social justice issue that I'm going on about again. Very few of them know that it's more than that to me.
JennyLynn, if your're from upstate New York, you will do fine in Woodstock and Poughkeepsie.
Purging, i've lost alot of great heels & outfits that way.
It being an opportunistic activity for me.
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Having to stop even just for a few days
The cost in financial terms. No matter how many nice clothes I have, I always want more.
This....what she said!
Well Arlene in my humble opinion,if your 24/7...your not crossdressing,your living as a woman!
The worst thing about crossdressing is having to go back into drab mode!
HUGS
Exactly what Susan said: The worst part about crossdressing is not being able to do it all the time. Well that and the cost of getting laser, breasts, and those sorts of things
let's see, shaving, I'm terrible at eye make up, the cutest shoes never seem to come in my size, my wife doesn't love it and want to help me, I have to hide my clothes, ....
I could deal with all of that better (especially the make up) if I could just do it more often and when ever I wanted.
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