hi im really strugleing to control my cding at the moment i thought i had it under raps i told my wife that was a bit akward but since then i cant think of any thing else if i see a woman with nice cloths or in a shop i have to look to the point i make a excuse like neeeding the toilet so i can sneek off i all ways look a a girls shoes first i only wear shoes and underwear im trying not to try any any dress or stuff cause i fear this will develop and i might not be able to stop my wife is very good but dosent like to c me dressed i have 2 young children to so im limited to when i can i think i might be in a big pink cloud but can see the way out im thinking of a shrink how would u go about seeing one thanks