I have decided that after my makeover from a few weeks ago that my next step to becoming more comfortable with my dressing is to lose the weight that I have wanted to lose for some time now anyway. It has become very obvious that the only possible way for me to be comfortable dressed up is to he comfortable with myself to begin with. If you have any possible recommendations I would love to hear them thanx
Jennifer
Seems watching our weight and dieting is a universal feminine trait whether GG, TS, TG or CD. Personally I have had success following the Atkins Low Carb Diet and must admit never feeling hungry.
I've lost over 50 pounds this summer and fall. My secret which is really no secret is MOVE MORE and EAT LESS. Works every time. I'm also diabetic and most days I don't have to take insulin anymore.
Well for me I told the wife a fue years ago (I think close to 5) that I was going to lose she asked why. I did not realy have a reason at that time not even for me. Now down 40 lbs some people say its too mutch but I'd like to lose at least another 10 or so. Sarted at 220 holding at 180. Good luck the only thing I can say is you have got to want to do it that was my thing.
Keep us posted on how you are doing?
Leona
The basics to losing weight is also the hardest. Burn more calories than you consume. To make a life change is what one has to do. They must comment to doing that. My suggestion is always lose weight slow. Remember exercise but also began slowly and build up. Most try too much too fast. Take each day as a new day. If you should succumb to eating too much one day just start the next day anew with the attitude and telling yourself you are going todo better today. Now here is the best part every time you lose five pounds buy your self a treat. Ummmm let's see maybe some nice hosiery, the next five pounds maybe panties... Pretend you are starting on a whole new ward robe. Start on the cheap stuff first and when you get to your goal weight buy something you can wear and look stunning in. Be sure to wear it at least once a week and when it starts getting tight get back to work.... This works with rewards and taking baby steps makes it easy.
Pre-transition I weighed at 250 lbs. now several years latter I am 165 lbs. when I compete IFBB I get down to 12% body fat, my husband can get his down to around 9% but I wouldn't trade my E for T ever again but what I did and still do is this:
Before you can do any good with a workout or diet (that doesn't work anyways exercise and portion control and if it’s white don’t bite will do it all ), you have to get your heart going to your Aerobic level 85% of max (220 - age) X .85= aerobic heart rate. Here is my one hour workout routine: 5 minutes stretching, 25 minutes on the treadmill with this routine 1 minute @ 2 1@3 1@4 1@5 1@6 then back to 1@2 and so on, repeat this cycle 5 times 25 minutes total, 5 more minutes stretching then 25 minutes of free weights doing simple stuff curls, squats, lunges and crunches finish with a good recovery drink.
Good luck sweetie.....
da truth! I lost 50 ten years ago... and have kept it off... ice hockey... salads and no snacks after dinner....Originally Posted by BillieJoEllen
This summer I dropped an inch off my waistline, which is now down to 31 inches rah!
I've always been slim but that unsightly spare that was taking root really turned me off!
Now my jeans fit much better and no more waist cinchers!
My method? I stopped 'grazing' between meals, I eat more sensibly, and I stair climb for 30 minutes every day.
(I added 1 inch to my inner thighs)
"Missed it by that much!"
In the spring of last year my weight was 195lbs, I am 5' 10". By the fall my weight was 165lbs. I have found, at least for me, that I need to combine exercise with an eating plan. I used an Atkins like, low-carb, diet along with running in the morning and the DVD Insanity workout in the evening.
There have been a number of studies comparing Low-Carb, Low-Fat, Low-Calorie diets. There seems to be some concurrence that the Low-Carb diets tend to work a little faster.
http://tomnikkola.com/what-do-18-stu...ow-carb-diets/
Although right about the New Year I thought, hey, I am down to where I want to be, if I keep exercising I can go back to eating all the other stuff I have been missing. Probably would have been alright if I kept the portion size down, but I didn't do that either. Put back on the 30 pounds in 9 months.
I just started last week on my eating plan again, Low-Carb style, along with my running in the morning. I am back down 9 pounds this week. Always lose alot the first week on a low-carb diet. Usually it is quite easy to drop at least 2 pounds each week though.
Good luck. And I'll race you to our goal weights.
-KD
Drop carbohydrates and sugar-- i've lost 30 lbs in the last 3 months on diet change alone. Watch for hidden sugars in food and kick the bread habit. Also watch for the snacks after dinner!
Watch Calories.
Move more
Exercise (run run run!)
Drink waterI notice that I feel full more quickly when I drink the 6 to 8 glasses of water a day.
Get some good sleep too! It will help you not eat late at night, and if I remember correctly it helps with losing weight in other ways but I don't feel like looking up just how at the moment :P I know that I lost more when I fell asleep at a decent time each night though!
Also if I am remembering correctly the diets like Atkins where you put no carbs into your body what so ever are not entirely healthy. They put your body in a fake sort of diabetic state since no sugars are being broken down. My teachers have told me that most people who go on those diets too gain teh weight back rather quickly. Obviously cut back on carbs though :P There are a LOT in places you wouldn't expect. Juices are HUGE sources of them, then there is syrup, sodas, cereal etc. Just watch them
Also for calories rule of thumb is about 3500 calories = one pound
Last edited by Allison Quinn; 11-19-2013 at 09:46 PM.
As I have gotten older I just eat less and low and behold I have lost weight but my stomach needs a little more work.
I've found a product that I now sell called Plexus that is an all natural health drink and products. I've lost 15 pounds 2 inches and did it in less than 6 months. It curbs cravings and as we say it's just a pink drink a day, seems like a great product for folks like us. Private message me for more info
It's simple if you're serious about weight loss. All u have to do is develope a plan for eating and drinking that works for u!
Remember, diets don't work in the long run. U must change your eating/drinking habits to lose and keep weight off. Here's some things that work for me:
Switched from beer to red wine.
Don't buy crap snacks for your home. I buy carrots, cukes, turnips, sardines and rice cakes.
Cut back on carbs and fast foods. Or, eat their salads, turkey burgers, etc.
I drink unsweetened tea with lemon or milk. Never drink sodas.
Splurge at lunch, not at dinner.
Don't eat late at nite.
Don't deprive myself. I buy lo cal ice cream. But, don't eat any until at least an hour after I've finished my meat, veggies or salad, fruit, and hot tea dinner. Often, I forget about it or lose desire for it. A half gallon will last us over a week, depending on my daughter.
I don't worry about splurging when out with friends or on special occasions. Because I know I can diet for a few days and lose the 2 to 5 pounds I've put on. Then, back to my usual eating pattern.
Find an eating pattern that works for u. Remember, if you're losing a pound a week and can maintain that, you'll get wherever u want to be eventually!
Last edited by docrobbysherry; 11-20-2013 at 12:43 AM.
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Two words -- Weight Watchers. It is a great program that includes solid methods for changing your eating and movement habits. Can't recommend it enough. It works.
Hugs,
Persephone.
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The most important thing is getting your diet right, especially reducing carbs but exercise is of course very important. The most efficient form is high intensity workouts, it achieves much faster results than walking or jogging and takes up much less time. Look up HIT or Tabata on the internet and you'll get great information .
As mentioned above just including lots of moving about in your daily routine is also an excellent way to burn up more calories. If you are really motivated it's not so hard. Good luck
The thing about weight loss is that what works for some does not always work for others. While weight loss is plausible we are defined by our genetics to some degree so some will have to work harder than others. Age factors in as well as our metabolism slows when we get older. Best tip is eat right and healthy but don't starve yourself. We are biologically and genetically predisposed to slow our metabolism when our body feels we are starving (this is a hold over from the hunter gatherer days). Eat your three meals a day, eat sensibly and stay away from complex carbs. Someone mentioned weight watchers and I think this is a great place to learn about diet and eating healthy. Stay away from fad diets.
Exercise - aerobic conditioning will shed pounds rapidly (running, cycling, swimming). I jump rope for 50 minutes each day. However don't discount weight training in moderation. Yes guys can pack on muscle pretty darn fast and bulk up but if you stick to high reps/low weights it will help tone you and provide an athletic look to your body which can be quite feminine depending your body type and genetics. I am personally not a big guy (5'6" and 155 lbs - down from 180lbs) but interval training has help to give me a more athletic frame (lean muscle mass) which can look quite convincing in the right femme clothes.
Hugs
Isha
What worked for me was portion control no second or third helping just one.I ate what I liked just less of it.
I quit eating fast food and cut out 50% of the red meat and ate more turkey and chicken.Incorporated more salads too.
If I wanted a snack I would make a small salad and use a low fat dressing.Don't eat after 9:00 pm.
Walking a couple of miles every night helped a whole lot too.
I'm 155 now down from 250. and have kept it off for 7 years or so.Basically it takes changing how you eat.
I still eat what I want and have a treat every now and then.
Yes always watch calories and do exercise. There are two things other than that I've found to work and are proven to work. One is Garcia Gamboa and the other Green Coffee Beans. Look them up as they are safe and do work. Both come in pill form and are proven to allow weight loss without the total lifestyle change. However, it will work better and faster if you can control your food intake and get more exercise but you don't have to kill yourself. Also honey, stay off the carbs.
Its all about what goes into your mouth. Yes, exercise is a helper but you must control what you eat. Without knocking any of the many 'diet suggestions' you just need to eat less. When I had to loose weight for medical reasons, my approach was pretty simple (for an engineer). Measure everything I ate, know the caloric and nutritional content and record it in a daily log. Once the day's intake got to 2000 calories, I was done. This was a 2 lb/week loss rate which totaled 30 lbs when I was done. After that, it was just maintenance of the newly formed eating habits.
Now, the measuring is a pain at first, but it allowed me to 'standardize' a number of meals. Once I knew the makeup of a particular meal, it was just a single line item......'standard lunch - 450 cal'. I always ate the same variety of foods as before the 'diet' it was just a matter of portion control.
I never ate 'fast food' but restaurants were always a challenge. No way to rate the caloric content but so long as it is not a nightly event, a little overage won't set you back too much. In these cases, you can revert to the Okinawan Diet 'stop at 8 parts full' (based on a 10 parts measure) . Unfortunately, most restaurant portions if fully consumed, leave you 20 parts full
Best of luck in your endeavor. It is not easy, but it is so well worth the effort.
Hugs, Robin
About 10 years ago I lost 50 pounds using Atkins. I tried losing it through exercise alone, but that only got about half the weight off and then nothing. I then modified my diet through Atkins/low carb eating. Wow the weight just melted off. Since then I have been able to maintain my weight through moderate exercise and mostly being careful of my carb intake.
Best of luck!
Jennifer,
I found putting a time lock on the refrigerator helpful.
I go touring and walking every couple of years. This helps lose weight.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
I went on Weight Watchers On-line back in September. Stuck too it to a "T". Have lost 16.5 lbs so far and feeling great. Little pricey to get strted....$60 or so. Well worth it though. You just have to be determined!
Megan
I have been on a low fat, lot cholesterol and low salt diet for five years. Also go to the fitness center four times a week and walk five miles a day. If you want to wear sexy, revealing clothes it is important to maintain your weight.
I am down about 40 lbs this year. I basically done the "good carb vs. bad carb". Its sort of an Adkins or South Beach Diet thing...BUT!...I strongly suggest to stay out of ketosis. For those that do not know what it is...its sort of basically you starve your body of carbohydrates to the point it takes fat and muscle for energy, and then you create waste ketones (acids?)that get removed by kidneys. Its real hard on the kidneys...then I was walking 15-25 miles a week. I might loose 10 more... then I would have to buy new clothes!
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