I want to meet other CD's are those Dating site safe
I want to meet other CD's are those Dating site safe
I would be interested in the answer to your question too. I have met some other cd's at alternative or lgbt club. Tri Ess is also a good place too.
Sarah
As safe as Obamacare. There are no safe or real dating sites. Dont be suprised if you find alot of fake profiles as you search. The best way to find other cds, I am assuming you mean just for friendship and support, is to find a local support group or possibly through a website like this. First find others who have the same interests as you do, get to know each other the best that you can before setting up a meeting, then when you do if you can find a nice public place to meet is the best idea. Be cautious and stay safe.
Erica
I am on one particular site and I have found that with men or other CD's the "IDEA" of meeting in person is much fascinating and exciting to them than actually meeting. Have had number of those site members I have told sure lets meet....never heard from them again! Good luck and please be carefull
I have found CD friends 2 different ways....one thru a local group here that threw monthly parties which is pretty safe, and the other, which is not so safe but I wound up finding a really good friend, was Craigslist. Which is full of creepers, you just have to be carefull, and you have to be sure the person you are talking to is really who they are. In my case, if they diddnt have alot of pictures you were a fake, cause we all know how many pics we take of ourselves. I also set up a safe public place to meet, and when she showed fully dressed I knew she was the real deal. We became good friends and after a while she decided she wanted to hang out as a guy while I still dressed...so we dated for a long time. We lost contact cause I moved, lost her email ,I purged etc etc...I am tempted to find her again, I am pretty sure I know where she works. I am getting off track though...just be smart...I think here may be a good place to meet cd friends too, that is why I joined ,I too am hoping to meet some interesting girls from all over not just locally to me.
I've met CD's a few different ways. Craigslist does work, however you must trust your instincts here. So many nut cases and weirdos, however within all the clowns I have met a couple of nice girls. I have met one nice local girl here who helped me quite a lot. It depends on if you are looking for friendship, or other relations.
I have met one nice girl on crossdresserchatcity.com A webcam site where you can go on cam and talk to other CD's/TV's and a lot of men, some men are nice, some are rude. You can avoid them easily. Some very nice helpful girls there.
URnotalone.com is another site to meet like minded people
Fetlife.com works to meet local CD's in your area. More of a dating site.
Clubsissy.com has a chat board with and you will probably find local CD's.
(If it's against the rules of this board to post these I will not be offended if my post is edited).
The four sites above have all worked for me to get in touch with other local CD's .If you are not into X rated material don't visit any of them because you don't have to go far to find it, other than URnotalone, which I don't recall having any porn. Be careful and don't give out your phone # until you really get to know people through email and chat. I have not been burned or in a sticky situation using any of these sites. I am very careful. Make sure you are too. I have never tried an actual dating site, I think most of them are scams anyway just trying to get your money. I know the photos they show of local CD's in your area are all fake. Take the advice fro the posts above and meet in public first, that did save me one time. I would have not wanted this CD to know where I lived. She was nice but a little sketchy.
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I must say that if you are married or have a SO and you're trying to meet other CDs, etc, you are really playing with fire. When she finds out about your secret life, you won't have a leg to stand on.
I have lots of CD girlfriends! All of whom are either happily unattached or have wives that embrace their lifestyle.
Lynn Marie
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You should be wary when looking at dating sites, as giving out personal information can lead you into trouble.
After ten posts the meeting place will open up to you and you can talk there.
This is not a general meeting site but a social site.
Read through the posts here and see if it is what you are looking for.
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I use Craigslist and met a few convincing crossdressers however there are a lot of timewasters on that site as well, i have found out, so my advice is just be careful
Did you try Meetup.com...I found a couple CD/TG groups that meet at nearby clubs. It is nice to go out knowing that there will be others like you in the place.
Thanks for the advice I think I will stay here and get to know a few of you
Good idea! Through one CD you will usually have the opportunity to meet others as well, so be on your best behaviorOriginally Posted by kendel
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I tend to agree with Erica. A lot of freaks out there. I asked the same question not too long ago and came to the same conclusion. You would be better off getting to know the people here and strike up a longterm friendship first. Afterall, it is about knowing somebody closely and not about jumping into the pit!
Take your time and know who you are and what you want, and be honest!
Last edited by JennyLynn; 11-28-2013 at 07:31 PM.
Meeting others can be hard. I think for many the idea of meeting others is fascinating...but most will never go through with it for one reason or another. I hear of so many stories of people stood up. I did meet people from here and I do remember one of the first things I said was that " you did not think I would show, did you". The reply, "you never know, but most do not". There are no groups within 100 miles of here, so all I can say is that you need to make yourself known to others...and maybe be willing to drive a bit...it worked for me.
I have had the most luck by actually going out into the world and talking to new people I meet at bars that are accepting of CDs. We are a friendly group overall. I hope this is an option!
I have the same question. I would love to meet other CDers but not sure how.
Shelly
I have found going out dressed to a safe CD friendly place like a gay bar or a bar that has drag shows to be the most comfortable. I have gone many times alone but I met some wonderful sisters there. There are many web sites to find others too and I have had wonderful luck on those as well.
Thank you for asking this wurdtion i was going to but found your thread first.
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