I'm out to my wife my brother has seen me dressed but I don 't think he know the extent of my dressing. My 96 year old mother live with us and I have gone around with makup and nail polish she never said anything and she is still very sharp. Sometime I get the feeling that my daughter is aware someting is going on. She has been over to the house and seen somecloths in the basement and made coment to my wife that she liked some of my things and wanted to take them as she has never seen my wife wear them. My wife has come up with some excuse that it is tne only thing like that that she has for those special ocasions