If she were very accepting of your cross dressing -- would you date a trans woman?

[PaulaQ]

So let's suppose you met a woman at a CD / TG type event. She tells you she's a trans woman, you tell her you're a CD. She's cool with it, and seems to like you.

Would you be inclined to date her?

She might want to set some limits on your CDing, or maybe not. (She might enjoy a man once in a while.) But regardless, she'd be very understanding of your need to express your femininity.
If so would you consider dating a trans woman who was:
a) non-op - she'll never have surgery, but may be on hormones.
b) pre-op - she'll eventually have surgery, but hasn't yet
c) post-op - she's already had SRS.
d) doesn't matter - she's a girl, plastic surgery be damned, if we connect, she's mine!

The above don't really cover all the possibilities - but that's enough since this is all hypothetical anyway.

What would you expect from such a relationship - could you treat her as if it were a relationship with a genetic girl?

Would you consider a really long term relationship, if you really connected together? Or just a one night stand, if that were even on the table?

[bridget thronton]

Assuming I were single - if I connected with her it would not matter

[Cynthia Anne]

B AND C yes I would! A and D I'm not sure!

[mirandacdgirl]

Yes I would, but I'm taken so

[Beverley Sims]

I would certainly have a date with her and associate with her.
Any intimate relations would have to come the same as any other girl.
You wait and see what develops.
This is a hypothetical question for me as I am already spoken for.

I think.

[Kate Simmons]

If I loved her for who she was as a person, it would make no difference.

[Erica Marie]

All of the above. I would in a heartbeat. I feel a transitioning female may be the only type of female who would be understanding enough to accept me. I would be delighted and exstatic. I would accept her for her choice of what level (a,b,c,d) she feels comfortable.

[Allison_Leslie]

VERY thought-provoking question. I'd have to say C to be totally blunt and honest here. As I would expect one would want ME to commit to one or the other sex, I'd want to have it if that were my thing and if I had wanted a guy.. which I do not. But if I take on a woman as a love interest in a serious fashion who happens to be transgender, I would want her to be post-op because I am a guy and I would want to be able to have relations with her fully, not to put anyone off. just speaking bluntly here.

I enjoy my womanhood a great deal, at the end of the day, I am a male.
If my feelings change on this I will certainly let everyone know when it is appropriate.
I just feel if I'm to date a trans-gender and only be a CD myself, I'll still prefer one who has committed to the reassignment fully.

[LelaK]

TG, anything but sex. TS, maybe anything. I don't think I'm monogamous though, more poly.

[Rogina B]

If I was single and we clicked together,nothing would matter. Things could get very interesting and might be a good subject for a reality TV series! lol

[MarciManseau]

Yes, to all four categories. In fact, we regularly get together with a TG girl. She comes to stay with us for a weekend about once a month, and once she was here for over a week, on her vacation. We both think she's wonderful.

I won't go into more detail now, but if anyone is really curious, feel free to message me here.

[sweetshauna]

Assuming I were single - if I connected with her it would not matter

Counldnt have said it better.

[CarlaWestin]

Well, yes I would date her, as in, getting to know you dating. I've never really subscribed to the intentional one-night-stand thing. Now, are you saying date her as a very male, husband material, hetero life situation that my crossdressing would be celebrated? Hmmm? Why not! This could possibly be the wonderful open minded relationship that I've always wanted. I'm sure that the introduction of other, ehem, enhanced proclivities would be accepted as interesting, and not just labeled weird. Carla loves role playing.

[KayleeTaylor]

Gender doesn't matter at all for me. It's all about what's in the heart not what's in the pants

[Melissa_59]

Sure, I would date her. I would hope we'd find something in common as well. I don't like relationships that go nowhere. I've been to nowhere too many times.

[Barbara Dugan]

I have a contact on flicker that is on a relationship like the one suggest, I think it can work real well

[Veronnie2]

I would definatly date her, and if things got more personal, well so be it. I have dated other CD/TG/TS gurls and still see them on may occasions.

veronnie2---aka-- Veronnica

[Monica2013]

Here Here! I've been nowhere too many times also. I would also.

Monica

[MisterEgurl]

I would in all circumstances suggested. If we connect and the feelings are strong and mutual, I would pursue a relationship.

[JennyLynn]

I guess if I were single, it would be fine with me. It's all about who you are inside and if you are attracted to the person. Not the plumbing or the lack thereof. Since I'm married, it might not be my place to say, but the thought of it still gives me the tingles!!

[Pandys]

At this point in my life If there is a "connection" I am in.

[Jenni Yumiko]

Date, yes. Marry probably not. Mainly because of my need to have children. (This assumes the past not my present)
IMO its all pink on the inside :-)

[Jessica giovanna]

All! In a heartbeat!!!

[suchacutie]

I've been in a wonderful relationship with a GG for over 40 years. That's one heck of a lot of positive reenforcement, so if I were ever again single I'd probably stick with GGs as my first choice for a relationship.

[UNDERDRESSER]

So let's suppose you met a woman at a CD / TG type event. She tells you she's a trans woman, you tell her you're a CD. She's cool with it, and seems to like you.

Would you be inclined to date her?

She might want to set some limits on your CDing, or maybe not. (She might enjoy a man once in a while.) But regardless, she'd be very understanding of your need to express your femininity.
If so would you consider dating a trans woman who was:
a) non-op - she'll never have surgery, but may be on hormones. No, I don't think so.
b) pre-op - she'll eventually have surgery, but hasn't yet. Maybe, at the very least, I would be open to a relationship when she did get surgery.
c) post-op - she's already had SRS. Yes.
d) doesn't matter - she's a girl, plastic surgery be damned, if we connect, she's mine! See above. I don't think I can get past the point about her having male parts. I understand it is a hangup on my part, but there it is.

The above don't really cover all the possibilities - but that's enough since this is all hypothetical anyway.

What would you expect from such a relationship - could you treat her as if it were a relationship with a genetic girl? With the caveats already stated, yes.

Would you consider a really long term relationship, if you really connected together? Or just a one night stand, if that were even on the table? Either, though I don't really have an interest in a one night stand as such.