Hi, Im kind of new in Toronto and since I moved to this city I decided to start accepting my cding side a little more and started buying more clothes, etc, and since I have been quuite lonely Imhavemt been afraid of being outed.
Since a couple of weeks ago I have dated a lady that I am starting to like a lot, an it seems thaat quiite soon we are going to go intimate for the 1st time. But since almost 1 year ago Ive been underdressing 24/7 and nowadays I dont have any male underware.
My question is what woukd you do? If youd go and buy male undies and stsrt using it in a regular way sonit wont be any issue when there comes the moment to be intimate, or youd just keepmunderdressing at usual and when that moment arrives just act normal and perhaps ask any possible quuestion and hope for a good reaction, or give her the "warning" before thst happens and see how receive the news?
I know that honesty is always the best thing, but I dont know if its to soon to let her know, and sometimes I think thay perhaps to tell her in advance it could be like accepting thst there is something wrong with thst and thsts why I giving her an explanation in advance.
What I woukd love to do is to act normal and when that days arrives just act as it is, just a piece of fabric, no big deal and see if she could take it that way, or should I just stop underdressing until we advance a little further in our relation?, Id appreciate any advice from any of the sisters and it woukd be nice to know the opinion of any GG. THANKS!!!!