Isn't it at least reasonable to expect an SO to discuss feelings at least once a month?
It doesn't seem like much of a relationship if one can't do that. And I'm not suggesting that CDs should try to persuade a non-accepting SO to be accepting. I'm talking about clarifying each other's feelings so each can try to help resolve any tension in the relationship. People keep saying on here not to be dishonest with your SO, but I think both parties need to be honest, and that surely requires open communication of feelings and needs etc.
