While I like CDing as such, I have since my early childhood, say from age five or so, had the desire to, not just wear women's clothing, but actually for some shorter time liked to be and living the life of some woman of choice, some (girl or) woman I had seen in the past, I just saw or someone I know.
It could be a female teacher, a hot neighbor woman, a friend's mum, a secretary in a white blouse and black pencil skirt at my work, someone in a TV-movie, perhaps a woman in a long wool-coat waiting outside a shopping-center to be picked up, and even a relative.
Without exception this was always a very beautiful, mature, feminine and from my teens and on-wards often a somewhat elegantly dressed woman. Of course, if I lived the life of someone else, I would behave, talk, wear the clothes, make up etc and have the same body and even the hair etc as this woman, also have the her work, relationships and so on that come with the life.
Now, I'm not sure that I would like to trade away my life for another, as I'm fairly happy with whom I am (even if the above fantasy may bring some doubt to it ;-), and of course it is utterly unrealistic, and it would not be fair to the other person, but it would nevertheless be interesting to hear if someone else have a similar fantasy in this respect and how it expresses itself? Any particular role models?
Also wonder how to classify this feeling, because I think it goes beyond regular CDing, and flavors thereof? And a sex change, using my own body, has never crossed my mid. So it is not transsexual, not CD, not transgender, but what is it/ could it be called?
Any clues of what the psychology behind this "unusual" thought pattern /feeling could be?
Any other thoughts on this theme?
Merry Xmas to all of you too,
/Bima