My wife and I love each other dearly and I am always respectfully mindful of her level of acceptance. Currently, I don't even expose my painted toenails when she's around and I don't bring up the subject of gender exploration unless she initiates the topic. The other morning I was awakened by the sound of water from an overflowing toilet. As I have an early schedule, I generally sleep in another room. I dispatched myself to the emergency in the usual nightgown, bra with forms, slippers and silky robe. I checked to see if she was OK and gave her a hug and helped her back to bed. Nothing at all was said about the way I was dressed. It was just, well, normal. So, can I maybe feel as though if I continue to not make a big deal about my girl life, someday it will just be accepted?