Just a quick survey... over the past couple of weeks I have re-connected with a long-time love of mine, we've been talking about "giving it a shot" - as in, dating and becoming a unit, maybe marriage... problem is she is Vanilla. What should I do? I know she would freak the hell out if she knew of this fun side of my personality, (not to mention her parents, who love the stuffing out of me!!), and honestly I would hate to lose her because she really, truly is somebody I could see being married to for the rest of my life. Yeah, I know.. that sounds corny and never in a million years would I have thought post-divorce I would ever feel like that, but the heart wants what the heart wants, and I want her in my life.
Problem is that my track-record with women is shot all to hell after I tell them about my crossdressing. I purged and gave it up for 20+ years of marriage, and after finding myself again, I hate to kill off "Toni" just so "Tony" can be happy.
So... can the two sides exist?
I gotta say - HELL NO. That's based on my past experiences. Every single time I've broached the crossdressing topic, the relationship dies.
Oh, Happy 2014 ya'll!!!