I was wondering, for those of you who go out regularly while en femme, what have your experiences been like in terms of safety? Have any of you felt threatened by anybody with bodily harm or arrest because somebody recognized you as a man dressed as a woman? How dangerous is it really to be out in public en femme? Personally, I haven't gone out in public en femme much and my outings so far have been fairly short in duration so I don't really have much in terms of experience but I can't recall ever feeling like I was in any real danger even though I'm sure some people probably figured out that I wasn't a real woman. I would like to go out in public en femme more often or for longer periods of time but I have been warned by some people that I would likely be putting myself (and anybody who accompanies me) at serious risk of bodily harm or arrest. I realize that there are some places I would NOT want to go while en femme like bars (which I don't go to anyway) and I figure that it probably would not be very safe to go out at night. Also, I know that some women are extremely sensitive about the idea of us visiting their restrooms. However, I think that MOST of the places I do like to go such as bookstores (i.e. Borders), movie theaters, the mall, restaurants, etc. are places where I think that the risk of being harmed or arrested in the event that somebody "clocked" me as a crossdresser (and I'm almost certain at least SOMEBODY would at some point) would be greatly minimized. I know that we are all always at SOME risk of being harmed, arrested, etc. by some "phobic" individuals because of our unique interests but I do not see myself as being in the kind of mortal danger that some people suggest that I might be in by going out in public en femme. After all, EVERYBODY (crossdressers AND non-crossdressers alike) is at at SOME theoretical risk of harm every day. What does everybody else think? Am I being overconfident/foolishly naive about the risks of going out in public en femme? I haven't heard many horror stories about going out in public en femme on any of the boards I've been to although I'm sure that they do exist. Any information would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!