Recently I was sitting down and thinking about what has transpired in my relationship with my wife. Things seem to be okay between us, but in one conversation she had expressed she wanted a divorce, remain friends, and if in the future, I have gone through all my problems (CDing) and prove to her a lot of things; she has no problem getting married again. This was brought up 5 times during one conversation. As if I was not getting the hint. So I am here asking myself what's more important: giving up CDing and try to fix a broken relationship that may never get better or accept who I am and that I like to CD (or even take the road of transition) and finally be happy and live my life. How many of you have reached this point? If you had to chose between giving up CDing to save a marriage or to walk away; what would you do?