I'm totally bisexual, dressed or not. It's a lot more fun when I'm in full on gurl mode though.. Long red hair cascading over his thighs.. And yes, there is one special guy.
I'm totally bisexual, dressed or not. It's a lot more fun when I'm in full on gurl mode though.. Long red hair cascading over his thighs.. And yes, there is one special guy.
Up until about 3 days ago I was straight. Then I went to a costume party dress all sexy and played truth or dare and I wound up having my first time with a guy. It was amazing both ways!!!! So yeah I'm absolutely bisexual now.
The names Kaylyn, and I'm not your ordinary princess!! 👸👗👙👢👠👡💖
Wow, the members here come up with some good questions! I consider my self as straight. I question my self on this for a long time because of my love of cross dressing.i didn't dress up for a long time and tried sex with a man on 2 different occasions and decided that it wasn't for me. I enjoy and love everything female. I'm small in the equipment department and im very uncomfortable around other men and women scare the hell out of me and I think that's why I dress, I can have both and I wont laugh at me
Jamey
Interesting answers here. From this I think there are more people that crossdress that are bi than actually gay. I have never experimented with the same sex and at age 50 I don't think it will ever happen. I love female and just don't or have attaction to male or the anatomy.
My male side has no interest in a sexual relationship with a man. On occasion when I was young and still very good looking I was "hit upon." Even with my wife present. That really would get her ire up. Scratch your eyes out she would have!! Growing up there was no Internet. The best thing available was Playboy down at the newsstand. However, when attired or dreaming of being attired as a woman, I envision or dream of being totally submissive, as in totally helpless. As in against my will. I have seen Internet porn where women are restrained. I wonder how many of the male viewers see themselves in the place of the GG or the TS/CD actor? Being taken against your will absolves you of any violation of societal norms?
I've slept with about a dozen women, and been married to 3 of them. I've slept with about 30 men. Referring back to the porno-meter test, I definitely would react to gay porn since "Penis Pix" fascinate me. Always have.
This is EXACTLY where I think I am.Originally Posted by Jenny Miller
I'd agree with Vicki mostly here. While I can appreciate the male form in certain situations, I don't find myself attracted to men. While I can fantasize about being or acting like a woman, it's only with a woman, whether she's expressing as a woman or a man.
I think it just goes to show that cd's have all kinds of sexual preferences. I wonder if it mimics the general population though I have a sense that there are a higher proportion of bi cd's versus the regular population, but who knows. I always think of straight and gay being poles on two opposite sides of a line and most of us fall somewhere in the middle. I used to be further towards straight though I was bi curious. Now I am a little closer to the middle. I prefer women but can enjoy men as well and other girls, well perhaps my biggest attraction now.
Lots of good points here. I guess I could just straight out say that I am Bi... However I think my attraction to men is mainly attributed to the way being with one, or being admired by one, helps me feel more feminine and complete when Vanessa. Occasionally I can find a very fit man attractive but they really don't sexually turn me on. Women and other CD's definetly turn me on. I guess its a mental vs physical turn on for me.
For me I am mostly attracted to women. When I 'm dressed I do find a lot of other gurls attractive. I've always fantasized about dressing up and playing with a feminine gurl.
I was there too. And I also wonder.
I'm pretty sure that a crossdresser is not 100% straight. I know it's debatable and for a lot it's a fact that you can CD and be 100% straight. What I can say for sure is that I'm not and I have not been 100% straight ever in my life. Never ever had sexual intercourse with another man or making out, not even touching. I don't find porn appealing, gay or straight. If I'm horny I may have an erection watching either but I don't think that's an accurate measurement of straightness.
Deep inside, I know I'm bi at least. Never went for it, never tried. I'm sure that, given the opportunity, I would have tried it in my teen years or even later. I had my opportunities with girls, took some, pass some. When I entered into young adulthood I was already in a committed relationship and that put a closure to the issue.
There are many factors. Homosexuality was (still is in some ways) a stigma, sex was a taboo topic. The opportunities may have been there but nobody were advertising and I never had the initiative, for the same reasons probably. It's really hard to tell. The criteria used to define an homosexual are not based on facts mostly. Of course you can see that a man having actual intercourse with another man is homosexual. But there is that idea that in prison a man penetrating another man is not. So, the line is actually a wide gray zone.
In the end... does it really matter?
Being married and loving my wife I would betray her trust and cheat with another person. That being said, when I was younger I would have said exclusively straight. Yet as I have grown up and tried to get a deeper understanding of myself, I would have to say I am bi-curious. I have had several fantasies of being treated like a women by a guy. I am curious how things would be from the perspective of the women and being that I will never know, I will just have to stick to fantasies.
I think this study is very flawed. I do not think you can decide whether someone is straight bisexual or gay by what type of porn turned them on. I probably get turned on just as much by looking at vintage cars as I do is looking at naked women. Does that make me a crankshaft?.gif "Big Roll Eyes")
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Cara
I adore women. Making love to a sensuous woman is an incredible experience. Giving myself to a caring and gentle man is also a wonderful experience. I am truly blessed.
Depends on the definition you use for 100% straight. Most common version of this discussion is using the Kinsey Scale, and very few people end up on the ends. Even without CDing most people don't qualify for 100% straight by that argument.
If you use it to mean dating only the opposite gender as their gender, then it's actually not that hard. Any other definition and it's almost impossible.
As for it not really mattering your right. It really shouldn't.
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i totaly agree jayme . i feel Sry for all who are not bi-sexuall . men and women are both created equally beautiful
I find my wife to be so fascinating that there is no desire for anything else. So that makes me straight as a beam of light unaffected by any outside force or energy. And happily so. And happy for anyone else who finds happiness in their life through a means not necessarily like me.
I think I'm attracted to sexuality... Know the Kinsey scale? I'm on it, and it varies. I'm SEXUAL! But mostly attracted to the female form. So I find myself turned on mostly to GG, CD, TS... Also fem men. And generally, any one who is drop dead gorgeous!
Lordy that was funny Cara.
I think this study is very flawed. I do not think you can decide whether someone is straight bisexual or gay by what type of porn turned them on. I probably get turned on just as much by looking at vintage cars as I do is looking at naked women. Does that make me a crankshaft?
I dated a few ladies, and enjoyed it, but when I dress I want a man, and enjoy it. I love how he makes me feel like a woman, and find myself wanting more.
I may not be a super model, but it feels so good.
OMG...this is the thread that never dies...lol
What does that say?
Haha
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I identify as genderfluid so when I say I'm straight people get confused. I like GG's and that's it. I like having a "female" role with a female partner. I live a kinky lifestyle so I'm submissive and I enjoy being treated and used like a girl from a dominant female partner.
I love being a girl but I have no attraction at all for genetic males. I've been exposed to a lot of gay and bi males but I just have no interest in them sexually or as a relationship partner.
This is soooooo old a discussion. But that said, current society, no matter how advanced we think it is, does not appear to be ready to accept the notion of the heterosexual crossdresser. It is society which has sensually and blindly dumped that pile of fabulous scents, colours, textures and behaviors in the "female" box and the rawhide, boring clothes and stupid scents in the male box.
How about this: That gender and sexuality has nothing to do at all with those choices?
Just because I like my eyes smoky with a fire alarm red colour matte on my lips does not make me personally want to be with men, in fact it's quite the opposite.
Very well said ophelia. Very true for me mens stuff is just boring and woman stuff is such a range of fashion its dizzying. Funny that is my favorite look smoky eyeshadow and red lipstick. I find I am more atrracted to women since having more knowledge about dress and the whole routine. I look at woman up and down and just drool with envy at a beautiful lady.
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