Wow, quite a read here. Going back to the initial question of how straight we are, I know I am bisexual. I am turned on by viewing porn of men's and women's bodies as well as gay, lesbian and straight sexual situations (not the extreme stuff). I am married and enjoy sex with my wife but I also enjoy sex with men. My wife is totally anti gay so she would never accept my extra curricular activities (as seldom as they are). There is a whole other story in there, but that's for another topic. I have a cross dresser friend that I see occasionally (who is also married) and we dress girly together and enjoy sex with each other. I also have a guy friend that I see once in a blue moon (who is also married) that I see dressed as a guy and we enjoy sex together. It seems to work out nicely to have these rare encounters with other people that also just want to have same sex fun together. So that's me, I go both ways. I have been in this relationship situation for six years. Before that I had another friend that I knew for several years. So its not new, but it did take me a while in my life before I ventured into the bisexual waters and found that... I like it!