I decided to go out en femme.So I get on the bus and one of my best friends is driving!!!I thought this is it he will know me!
He says casually after I show my pass "Thank you ma'am"
I have been friends with this person for over 35 years(yeah i'm showing my age,lol)
There is nothing wrong with crossdressing but there is a great deal wrong with society.
congratulations You must of fooled him^^ and it sounds like fun. having close calls like that all tho probably gave me a gray hair or two I find exhilarating.
Wow, that is so cool. That demonstrates beyond a doubt that most people identify gender based on prominent features expected. I love posts like this. It gives me confidence to present as female even though I am an aborigine, cave man, unibrow. Not really, but I 'm sure many understand what I'm trying to say...
That is so Cool! I'd probably have frozen up and gave myself away. But...who
knows. Maybe I'll find out one day...
Great validation, Jennifer...
Confirms again that most people out there are just wrapped up in their own little world!
Of course, because we spend so much time watching other folk (and particularly GGs!), we assume everyone else does...
Great experience, Jennifer - have another...
Katey x
"Put some lipstick on - Perfume your neck and slip your high heels on
Rinse and curl your hair - Loosen your hips, and get a dress to wear" Stefani Germanotta
Remember, Jennifer,
He is concentrating on the pass, the next passenger and the timetable.
I may look people in the eye when serving them but I do not necessarily recognise "what" they are.
Eye contact can be just that unless a distraction occurs.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
Good for you. I have heard before, that most people we know, will not recognize us when we are in femm mode.
Jennifer now you know that you pass,so congratulations ! I'm not sure my old ticker would've made it. You must be one cool headed girl.
Sweet he didn't recognize you.
Could be he did notice, but is great with snap decisions and covering his emotions?
Be nice if you have a much better friend than you thought you did.
Barbie
Wow, that's really an OMG moment, congrats. Jaymee
I enjoy being a boy, being a GIRL like me!!!
While he may have recognized you if he was not distracted, the experience was certainly memorable.
Good for you, and many happy travels on your journey through life.
Best wishes
MsVal
Maybe he already knew
I love it. I think he probably didn't recognize you because you were female and it just didn't register in his mind that you were his friend.
You passed!!!
That was a rather surprising but exciting revelation, wasn't it?
Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.
Eleanor Roosevelt
Don't depend on it next time, when you deal with the public all day, you stop looking at faces, he just reads the more obvious signs, and doesn't look at the details.
Clothes say girl, hair says girl, hand says, young or old, bus driver gives the right response thank you ma'am or Sir. it's all kind of like a machine.
Another setting, paying more attention, it's hard to fool those that really know you, it might take a moment but then a light may come on, so just don't count on it every time.
On the other hand, what a rush getting away with it, and him not recognizing you. But tell me, do you carry clean panties for that sort of encounter, I know I would of needed them.
Magic is the art of changing consciousness at will.
He probably doesn't really look at the passengers as he see's so many on a daily basis, just hope he concentrates on his driving a bit more.
That is awesome. That is the main fear I have and why I struggle with going out locally. Even when I go to Vegas and go out, I change hotels from the conference I am there for and then become Trisha, but still live in fear that I might get recognized by someone from the conference or even someone I don't know is there too. Way to go girl!! WOOT WOOT!
If you dress like a woman and act like a woman that's what people see. Even old friends or family if they don't know you dress. It's happen to me and they just walked by.
GLENDA
I FEEL LIKE A WOMAN
What a cool experience! I have yet to encounter my friends and them not recognising me!
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Hi Jennifer, Two things You probably pass and he probably didn't really look at you and the ID .
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