I've been a cder since I was a young child quite some time ago. I've had a SO for many years. As I get older and have more time available I can become somewhat obsessed with my open ended goal of looking and acting more feminine, but thats the extent of it. I don't desire to transition. Just play dress up. Well my SO is encouraging me to see a therapist ' to help me figure out who I am', and then she and I will talk about where we stand with things. My question is...Will I be wasting time and money in doing this for my SO or will we get something out of it. Thanks for any advice.