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Thread: My dad called me by the right pronoun!!!! 0o0

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    Talking My dad called me by the right pronoun!!!! 0o0

    So, we got a table from one of my dad's friends today and as I was hauling the chairs into the kitchen my dad apologizes to the guy and says 'Sorry for the mess but he's been doing laundry all day...'

    It took me a minute to realize that he was talking about me!

    I've not 'officially' come out to my dad as being transgender or asked him to call me a 'he' so you can probably see why this was so surprising! =^-^=

    He didn't even realize that he did it!

    But I did. And it made me so happy! I wonder if that means subconsciously I'm coming across as a man to him??

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    Either way Len, seems like you're happy about it, and that's what counts
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    Made me smile - Very happy for you.

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    That's great Len! Acceptance feels so darn good

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    Maybe so Len. You do to me my friend.
    Second star to the right and straight on till morning

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    Quote Originally Posted by LenGray View Post

    He didn't even realize that he did it!
    THAT'S validation. 100% pure and true.

    Best wishes
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    The first time we are gendered correctly is such a milestone. Maybe it's the right time to come out.

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    This is called acceptance.
    It takes a true Erin to be a pain in the assatar.

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    That's great! It's so awesome that your dad is accepting of you being a man.

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    Len - I think that's what it does mean!

    Just keep doing what you're doing, and doing it how you' re doing it - I think all will be well over time...

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    I'm glad for you Len.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LenGray View Post
    He didn't even realize that he did it!

    I wonder if that means subconsciously I'm coming across as a man to him??
    Pahaa I think it does, the same thing happens to me with people that i'm not even out to :P I love it and i'm glad you get to experience it also ^^

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    Thanks everyone for the great replies! Every one of them made my day!

    I Am Paula: I think that you're right ^_^ I've been feeling so much more confident as a man since then it's unreal!

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    But I did. And it made me so happy! I wonder if that means subconsciously I'm coming across as a man to him??
    Yep, that's what it means, hon! Congrats - I'm really happy for you!

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    Little things like this are so wonderful, aren't they?

    Of course, he may make a gender mistake or two in the future, but you know where his heart it!
    Eryn
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