I am typically a sitter, but if someone engages me I will open up and hang out. Last time I went out dressed I went into a lesbian bar (which is open and accepting to cds though) and sat by the mega touch and just played a game or two and sipped my beer. A gg accross the bar asked why I am sitting alone and invited me to join her, there were literally only like 5 people in the bar at the time. She was extremely comlimentary of my makeup and outfit and we made small talk for about a 1/2 hour. She then got me to get off my butt and go play pool with her, and even gave me crap about being girlier than her when I was reapplying lip gloss and didn't notice it was my shot. We met a super cute gg and played pool with the three of us, (unfortunately no fantasies were fulfilled of a three way or anything like that lol). Finally after a few drinks and a redbull and a water I had to leave, anyone who knows the phoenix area knows that they are very strict on DUIs so I did not want to take any chances, especially en femme as no one I know that would bail me out knows about ashlee. In the end it was a great night, but yeah like others have said I am shy and kind of keep to myself, but if someone engages me I have a blast and can be very sociable, just not good at breaking the ice and starting a conversation with random people.