in the past few days I've seen several threads about the behavior of wives/SO's regarding CDing, generally the response is to go at the wife/SO's pace/etc..
I wonder though, what would happen (hypothetically) if the situation were reversed, would your wife or SO really go at *your* pace and within the *same* limits she would set for you? Or would she go full speed ahead, not caring what you felt or thought? Or perhaps somewhere in the middle?
Just curious