Going back to Kim's original post..It was all about acceptance! Everyone around the person knew she was trans and they accepted her at face value...Like some others here,I am out in the mainstream every day sometimes in some places and with people that were thought to be behind the curve...People will accept you if you are genuine and own it..don't flinch...what you see is who I am... After acceptance comes inclusion...Tolerence [?]can even be changed to acceptance if you are willing to work at it!