I have now commented in a few threads which started "How do I look in...?" My replies have been along the lines of '(this) looks good, but (that) doesn't quite work'.
Most of the *other* replies are more or less "You look great!!!"
I feel like I'm the *only* one giving any constructive criticism. I know that we are all in a sensitive place, exposing ourselves to something that could blow up in our faces... but in here? We can and should feel safe.
While I don't ever want to tear anyone down, I also don't want to dismiss the request as just looking for a positive comment.
Why don't I see more critical comments on outfits and presentation?
- MM