Currently, I don't have an SO.. but I used to have girlfriend for 2 years.. and I envision my next relationship to be quite similar in terms of the crossdressing aspect.
1)If you dress fairly regularly and your SO asks you not to dress that day how do you feel? Annoyed, angry, etc or just take it on the chin and think hey tomorrow is another day.
Since my ex-girlfriend was actively involved (make-up, photography, shopping, etc) I would not be annoyed, but slightly worried.. so I would ask her about the reason(s).
2)When you are dressed , do you treat your wife
a- the same
b- different and how?
3)Why do those of you who are unhappy with nonacceptance or DADT stay?
N/A
4)What's the appeal of buying matching clothes with your SO? My husband buys us matching panties and is always surprised to be reminded that I don't care to be "twins".
This is sooo not my thing.. and I have always wondered this myself whenever I see a husband and wife skiing down the slopes in matching (and often hideously tacky) outfits!
5)When you look in the mirror fully dressed,
Do you really see a beautiful woman looking back ?
From most angles and in not too harsh lighting, yes.. I do! The kind of woman I'd never dare to ask out on a date.
Like Zylia has pointed out.. what is up with the "really" in that question?
6)Do you really think that GGs feel threatened and are jealous of how gorgeous you look, or is this the opinion of either newbies or a vocal few?
My ex-girlfriend never felt threatened by the way I dressed and looked, but I do know of some SO's of my t-friends who are a bit. I chalk that one up to confidence and self-esteem issues.
7) Both of us work and my chores were all the preparing all meals, home upkeep and laundry and husbands used to be car maintenance and lawn upkeep. Now that it is all girlie weekends everything is on me. Husbands version of a woman will not do cleaning and cooking so not an option. All I get is I am going to purge when I try to get him to look how unfair this is. Suggestions?
No need for a therapist with a fancy PhD: you have a lazy husband... period!