Isha,
I honestly don't know what I'd do if that happened to me. It hasn't, so far. Maybe I've been lucky -- I get the usual stares, but eye contact and a smile usually suffices. I'm really sorry that a Yay-Hoo like that messed up your day -- at least you had the Ladies' room as a refuge. There are hateful bigots in this world, and I don't know what we can do about them. Maybe a big smile and an a wink???
So we look forward to hearing how that denim skirt fits -- I have two and I love them. And thanks again for all of your wonderful posts -- they really are an inspiration for us.