My first significant post. Sorry this is a little long, but I thought this would be of interest to the forum, and I'd like some advice.
For the past five years (except for last year), my wife and I have had cool adult halloween parties in our house. This has universally led to the usual CD scheming, but in the end I always did the macho male costume becuase I didn't want the friends to suspect anything.
Note that I have had facial hair (ugh) for the last two years or so - the wife likes it (and so do I, sort of). This has put a rather significant damper on the CD experiences. So, as you can imagine, I've been kind of anxious to shave and go wild. In any event, I've had a pretty good cover for the past few years, which sets up this halloween...
This year I had done the usual pre-halloween fantasy story exchange with her, telling her that what I really wanted to do this year is to reverse our costumes from the first year where she was a hooker and I was a cop. This talk would normally stay in the bedroom...
Well, as it turns out, when one of her crazy girlfriends asked her what we were going to wear this year, she told her about our "plans". When she told me this I was stunned. The next time her friend talked to me, she told me she might have some thigh-high boots I could wear. Oh. My. God.
After that, she also shared the "plans" with another of her crazy girlfriends. This girlfriend (with her laid-back hubby) happened to come over to have some drinks one evening and proceeded to tease me the whole night about how she wanted to dress me up like a **** and do my makeup. She noticed that we have the same size feet, and also asked me to try on her shoes for size. (This girl has tons of sexy clothes and always wears great makeup.) This could quite possibly have been the most exciting evening I have ever had in my life. It couldn't have been better if I planned it myself. My wife was sitting back smirking at how all of this was transpiring...
So, here I am with the dilemma of what to do. On one hand I'd love to go crazy and live out my inner hooker. On the other hand, I'm afraid that this is too over the top and I'd need to be too careful not to let people see my fem side. Especially if I have a few drinks. Wearing a "guy" costume definately will lower my stress level.
One compromise I thought of was to continue the hooker costume plan right up to the last minute, and then say that I chickened out and wear a guy costume. This way I could play out the fantasy with the wife's fun girlfriends, but not have to deal with an evening of stress.
Anyone have any suggestions?
Shaking,
Kim
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