Like many here, I lead a rich, full life acting as a guy -- even did a few things that got a degree of noteriety, at least in specific areas. Which means that if someone puts enough pieces together they can discover my former life and identity.
Not that I'm ashamed of who I was or what I did, but I very much prefer to be "stealth," to be just another woman rather than a transsexual.
So it always seems dicey to determine just how much of "his history" I should claim in discussing my past.
How do you handle integrating your past into your current life?
Hugs,
Persephone.