I was reading Xandra's 01/ 2013 thread titled : " when did you first crossdress " & have loved reading everyone's responses . The thread is still a very popular read & response. Looking through the replies was like a trip down memory lane in that many of those who posted & shared their great stories seem to have disappeared from today's forum radar. If you are one who have become distant bystanders to the forum , I invite you back to share more of our commonality. I know that dressing is episodic, that there are ebbs & flows in our participation, but I am hoping that those from afar will come back home. I miss your stories , adventures & wisdom . Peace to all , mel