I realize I use this forum as a vent and a soundboard, I hope I am not being too selfish..... Lately, I have been wondering why something that I used to enjoy so much has lost its luster. What used to be enjoyable now seems dark and not fun. What I want to say is this, I see women as having alot of power, they get alot of attention, I want alot of attention. I frequently say to others that any attention is good attention, I pass it off as a joke but deep inside I believe it to be true. The fact that there are alot of lonely women out there doesn't matter to me. I have always had self esteem issues that may or may not be related to CD'ing. I seem to spend alot of time feeling bad about myself and I shouldn't.I am a kind, honest, hard working person, I care about others and others care about me. I have stopped dressing and developed a fantasy life where I end up feeling bad about myself. I am not sure why I do this, I just know that something I have done my whole life isn't fun anymore and I want to take the power back. I feel that once I take the power back back, I will begin to understand who I am on the inside and feel good about myself, no matter what I am wearing.