My first wife did not reject me because of my CDing. She didn't understand how much I wanted to CD, so I didn't do it that much around her - she just thought it was a kink. Ultimately we split up because we weren't very compatible, and because I was a raging alcoholic at the time.
My second wife definitely rejected me because of my CDing. She was sure I'd transition, and she guessed right.
I never had much luck with women though - I guess some of my transness bled through in ways that weren't obvious, because women always complained that I was so "different," but they could never put their finger on what it was. Now, of course, since I know I'm a trans woman, it's obvious what the problem was.
