hi, recently i came out to my mrs.
its DADT and things are very much back to normal, while watching tv last night we ordered up the latest offer of "bones" with our on demand feature of our cable provider, as the show ran it went to a crossdressing route and i nervously sat and watched for reactions from the mrs., transvestite she replied,
yup crossdresser, i replied back, lots of conversation on the characters and i felt comfy finishing watching the rest of the show,
now this is most positive showing ive ever seen in the media, they touched on many aspects of this thing we do and also conveyed the feelings not only of crossdressers they included the betrayal issues of the SO, very tactful and accurate,
so now for my point, those who may wish to reveal to theyre SOs may want to run the show if your provider offers this service and get a reaction without causing to much suspicion, maybe the gentle little push some seem to be waiting for to break the ice so to say,
or at the very least start a conversation like in my case, ever so brief, but reliving some of those feelings was scary and still kinda fresh, and it felt good to be at ease after the show.
so i wanted this to be about helping those who are conflicted with the reveal to use this as a tool so to say, like an acceptance meter, and not as a judgement right or wrong thread as you can readily search for one of them to post in, i wanted it to be about helping.....