For those of you who were "found out" by your W and you found yourself loosing them...
Do you think that if you had told them in the beginning it would have changed the outcome. As an ex, I do know that when I met my ex I was SO in Love with him that I would have been shocked, but was willing to do anything for him. I did many things that I never would have done for anyone. Yes, I now know there were signs. His mannerisms I know now were a tell all sign. I know if he had told me, I would have been shocked but I believe I loved him so much I was willing to do and give anything to be with him. I guess you can't go back.. but you can move forward. Your thoughts?