...Living in an immaterial world…?
With no apologies to Madonna – I seem to be having a crisis of identity… or something… Sometimes I feel like a fraud… Obviously I’m not a woman and that’s not what I mean – because I know I don’t want to be one completely…
Probably fraud is too strong a word – a pseudo CDer…? Faux TG? I struggle with how this feels – let me explain a bit… I think I’m struggling with the randomness of this gender shifting and how it seems to come and go for me.
I don’t get a chance to dress very often – home circumstances prevent that and also put pressure on normal life. Lately I’ve been feeling very down in general, and while previously the prospect of a full makeup job, a few selfies and some time trying some new outfit combinations would always lift my spirits, it doesn’t seem to feel that way at the moment…
I don’t know whether it’s exposure to other folks’ lifestyles here on the forum – because I admire so much the efforts that so many of you make to live the life that you want to, and before I’d come across this place I was a CD in my own little bubble – and it was a weird place but comfy and mine alone – and then I find out that all you thousands of girls out there used to have your own little bubbles too, but we’re all here now and out of our tiny bubbles if not always our closets! |Has that made a difference? Because the possibility of a few hours dressed, feeling different, feeling complete, used to be worth looking forward to – but now I’m sometimes just missing that desire to go all out and make that effort… Why?
Perhaps it’s just a natural downturn – I’ve said before that while I know that I feel a strong urge to express the feminine image I can, there have been times in the past when that has gone away or been suppressed for long periods… Don’t Panic! I’m not thinking of purging – it’s not that kind of feeling this time…
So I was wondering if others felt like this too?
Katey x