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  1. 06-13-2014, 10:15 PM #1
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    So, I finally told her how deep the rabbit hole goes. . .

    Ok, so I told my wife about 7 years ago that I liked to wear panties. But nothing more.

    A year ago I told her I'd like to wear a bra. Then started telling her I was a cd, but not really explaining what that meant.

    About 4 months ago I told her I'd like to try makeup. She said she wasn't sure she was ready for that.

    3 weeks ago I told her the whole truth, about the skirts, girl jeans, dresses, shoes, purse, and makeup. She asked if I would like her to buy me a dress.

    God I love my wife and feel very blessed to have her in my life.
  2. 06-13-2014, 10:29 PM #2
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    It sounds like she is being very supportive and/or tolerant, and that you are being sensitive to her needs by letting her take it in at her pace . Her offer to buy you a dress made me smile, that is an awesome show of love on her part.
  3. 06-13-2014, 10:40 PM #3
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    Let your wife buy the dress of her choice and be guided by what she desires.

    I wish you a happy experience.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.
  4. 06-14-2014, 01:47 AM #4
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    Yes let her chose a dress for you, and maybe you could chose a nice necklace for her?
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    Great progress but my advice is still to take it slowly and carefully.
  6. 06-14-2014, 04:57 AM #6
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    Hi there . . . very good news for you. However as others have said take it slow. She may know how deep the rabbit hole is now but she may still need some time to get down there. Communication is now the key so you can begin to determine what she can/cannot accept and what you can/cannot live with. At times some of these likes and dislikes don't mesh and compromises will need to be reached.

    Hugs and good luck

    Isha
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    Hi Queen, Ok now the ball is in her court go slowly and don't overwhelm her with this.
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    Congratulations on the good news. That kind of wife is worth much more than any fortune.
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    Good for you!!...I know you're excited. That rabbit hole can get deep!...
  10. 06-14-2014, 02:49 PM #10
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    After many years of trying to suppress my feminine desires, I finally fully came out to my wife and myself. She was and has been nothing short of amazing. She has bought my clothes and make up and we regularly shop together. I really feel that I have the best wife in the world and tell her all the time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Queen View Post
    Ok, so I told my wife about 7 years ago that I liked to wear panties. But nothing more. A year ago I told her I'd like to wear a bra. Then started telling her I was a cd, but not really explaining what that meant. About 4 months ago I told her I'd like to try makeup. She said she wasn't sure she was ready for that. 3 weeks ago I told her the whole truth, about the skirts, girl jeans, dresses, shoes, purse, and makeup. She asked if I would like her to buy me a dress.
    Just FYI. After my initial outing to my wife, over the next few years she seemed like she was trying to deal with it. And she even bought me two dresses during that time, helped me with clothing choices, even took pictures of me after dressing up real pretty. And kept those pictures to blackmail me with during the divorce. I hope your life doesn't follow the same eventual path. Good luck.
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    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
  12. 06-15-2014, 08:25 AM #12
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    Quote Originally Posted by sometimes_miss View Post
    Just FYI. After my initial outing to my wife, over the next few years she seemed like she was trying to deal with it. And she even bought me two dresses during that time, helped me with clothing choices, even took pictures of me after dressing up real pretty. And kept those pictures to blackmail me with during the divorce. I hope your life doesn't follow the same eventual path. Good luck.
    I'll keep that in mind. No pictures.
  13. 06-20-2014, 10:34 PM #13
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    Quote Originally Posted by sometimes_miss View Post
    Just FYI. After my initial outing to my wife, over the next few years she seemed like she was trying to deal with it. And she even bought me two dresses during that time, helped me with clothing choices, even took pictures of me after dressing up real pretty. And kept those pictures to blackmail me with during the divorce. I hope your life doesn't follow the same eventual path. Good luck.
    That's terrible. Sometimes life events make beautiful people do ugly things. Sorry to hear that and I hope things got better for you
    Last edited by Charlotte Williams; 06-20-2014 at 10:36 PM. Reason: Forgot to include the quote I was referencing
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