someone raised these points and as someone who surprised himself recently by discovering I like the idea of being a woman, I realise I also have to ask myself this question too. I think I could possibly be bi-sexual in the right circumstances. What do others think?
I think you very well could!
i think that crossdressing doesnt really have much impact on sexuality. i consider myself to be perfectly straight, but at one point in my life i felt the same as you do now, that if i want to dress like a girl that it's only logical that i must be bi. this mostly came from the fact that most of the compliments i got on my looks were from other CDers, and i felt that no GG would ever find a CDer attractive. boy was i wrong. I think youre attracted to whoever youre attracted too, how you like to dress doesn't make a difference. i even tried getting with a guy once, but realized that i wasn't attracted to men when i just couldn't go through with it.
Although I can not speak for everyone, gender and sexuality are two different unconnected identities. Just because you identify as a female does not mean you have to like or should like men, and vice versa if you identify as a male.
Truly if one is bisexual their gender they present will have no effect on their sexuality. As you are attracted to both genders it does not matter which gender you present as.
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While gender identity and sexuality have nothing to do with each other, we *are* crossing/mixing roles when we CD.
There is more to it than that, but the direct answer to your question is YES.
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That is something that you would definitely have to determine for yourself.
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Kayla,Originally Posted by KaylaRoxx
I believe you are so close to a real answer. I love women. I like the way they dress, move, react, and freedom that they totally take for granted. I don't dress fully and only under dress, however when I do "dress" I don't necessarily look for a guy; though more men than women are curious about transsexual and Crossdressers that will admit to it. You may not be attracted to a guy though that doesn't mean that they are not attracted to you. So does that mean if a handsome man starts hitting on you that you wouldn't appreciate the compliments and attention?
Curious? Not sure what would happen if a guy would hit on me, though if I found him / her attractive and they were nice, easy to speak with, who knows...
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alot of cd's become bi curious at some point, most arent though...I happen to be bi...but it has nothing to do with the clothes I am wearing, I have been with guys dressed,and in drab...and females too...i guess it depends on which way the wind is blowing...but thats me. For the other 99% its a curiousity or a fantasy and dosent go much further than that, i would even go as far to say its probably normal for gals to be curious.
I had my first crossdressing experience and first bisexual experience during the same few month period, when I was 12. They both became part of my life and they have both been totally separate, one not related to the other. Over time both progressed...now gay sexually and I'm at least entertaining the possibity that I might be trans, but they are still distinct and separate parts of me.
Yes, I would guess that is true. I think that wearing the clothes and assuming the role opens the doors to consider some other possibilities. We've always heard that under hypnosis we wouldn't do anything that we would not do consciously. The part of our brain that is the right-wrong engine is still active. I think that is how it is for crossdressers. Someone might see what a bisexual encounter might be like, but whether or not they include that as a part of who they are likely goes back to having a predisposition. If there is a predisposition, then you would likely have gotten to the same place eventually without crossdressing. Without the predisposition, an experiment wouldn't do much for you and life would return to how it was previously. The only difference being that you would have a specific data point.
I'm in agreement w/ Adriana here. I often smile at those who declaim that there is no connection between CDing and sexuality. That may be true for many, or even most, but it's not true for me. My dressing was the impetus for my exploration of bisexuality, for which I'm very glad.
Enjoying this discussion!
Traci
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While gender identity and sexual preference are different things, I think it's a little bit of a stretch to imagine that they're completely unrelated. A year ago, I would never have believed I could be attracted to men. Now, however, after doing a lot of exploration of my gender identity, I'm a little surprised to find I am attracted to men. I do fantasize about being the female partner in sex, though I would never act on the fantasy as long as I'm in a committed relationship. For that matter, I'd never cheat on my wife with another woman, either.
I kind of went the other way (oo, er!)
I was getting the feeling more and more that I was bisexual and the focus of the adult material I was looking at sometimes strayed into submissive roles that included sissies and maids. From that point I started to explore the CD side of my apparent love for man-parts and there was my path to wanting to dress up. For me they are intrinsically linked.
Your profile doesn't mention your age but I wouldn't get too hung up on it ! Our feelings do swing back and forth and sometimes we come to the wrong conclusions about our dressing. I've found the forum eventually lets you find your own level keep reading the threads even go back through some old ones, try not to be too overwhelmed by others we all have our own level !
some fascinating answers to my thread and all very enlightening, thank you
i think that most of us are bi-Curious it is just that we just don't come across the right times to act on them.
Right time,place ,person . Yea I could have a Bi -sexual encounter . Have it made it there yet ,not sure if I ever will. Something I don't set around and worry about .
Roxie
I've seen more than a few instances of a TG/CD being only attracted to women when drab and only to men when enfemme. Not sure that that meets the definition of Bi-sexual, but with no defined sexual orientation for this, bi-sexuality is the closest defined orientation.
DonnaT
I am attracted to other cd'ers whom I feel have a mutual attraction to one another. Am I bi or gay???? Maybe, but I still dream about attaining my one wish and that is to become a woman or at least live the remainder of my life as one.
Molly
"To thine own self be true"
This is EXACTLY the way I feel too
Not really sure? How I feel I was at a hotel party one weekend for cd's The Palms NJ. was at the pool swimming and drinking having a good time with all when one of the guys hat was there came on to me really hard I din't want to cause a fight because thats not how i am, one thing lead to the next I was kissing him and hee was feeing me up. It stoped at that not sure if I liked it or was it out of fear of geting beat up?
Certainly had some erotic thoughts about it.
Had a guy who was besotted by me.
Gave him a good time when I was young.
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While my impression that sexuality and CDing aren't the same..
In my case it helped solidify things more for me.
Long story short.. I had slightly thought myself BI or Pansexual a half year or more before I started CDing.
I never did anything though on the sex side or relationship-wise to figure anything however.
Most recent/only relationship? 30 years ago...
So CDing started, along with other stuff in my life making me think things out further and it all just fit.
There is only one way to find out if you like it both ways. Try it. If you like it, your Bi. If not, your not. Simple huh?
Or "Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't"?
Truthfully, you know who you are attracted to sexually, if you wonder you probably aren't. Trust me it looks better on paper
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