is a common thought often expressed here.
NEEDING/WANTING to discuss things is more thought of as a FEmale thing. In fact, it was well discussed in detail in "Mars/Venus". [and probably many other books since then?]
Women generally do not need/rarely need "cave time" like many men do. Obviously some women DO require it. QUIET - no conversation please - because I am chewing on/working on some type of problem and I can't "think" if I am having a conversation.
I have this suspicion that perhaps "many" CDers don't ever require ANY cave time?