I'm not asking this so much on a personal level, but on a general level for all GG's who find themselves in a relationship with a crossdresser who eventually meet the crossdresser's 'femme' side and wonder where they fit in. Yes, many will wonder this and many will fret about the answer. Why do you need us when you have a ready made wife inside you??
Given how complicated the relationship with a GG is for you all, it doesn't seem like GG/CD relationships fare very well. They can, but there's an awful lot of compromising involved. Often, the compromising means putting aside something important and innate to accommodate the spouse. Do other marriages compromise this much?
So, as the annoying girl that I'm am I have to ask....
WHY do you need us??