I sometimes wonder if my neighbors know, because I go outside and do yardwork dressed, I also have a facebook page, so sometimes I wonder??? Maybe in my own little way I want to get caught??
I sometimes wonder if my neighbors know, because I go outside and do yardwork dressed, I also have a facebook page, so sometimes I wonder??? Maybe in my own little way I want to get caught??
If my neighbors knew it would quickly spread to family (uncle, cousins etc.) and I don't want that.
"You're the only one to see the changes you take yourself through", Stevie Wonder
Since I started this thread, and after reading what many have said, I mostly don't care anymore. I'm retired from the workplace, have a new circle of friends, my Mom passed away (God bless her, I think she knew and still loved me.) and I have limited contact with people. My neighbors wouldn't see me unless I stood by the road. Some I know would recognize my vehicle if I ventured out dressed. The people who would probably know I could give a $--t about. If they wanted to make my life difficult let them try. I have a few women friends who know and love me all the more because I'm honest and trustworthy with them. My wife treats me also like a sister. Just yesterday I spoke with another out of state friend who fully transitioned in her 50's. She's loving life! My nasty ex-wife can say all she wants and swim in her own crap. I think she's jealous because I'm happier and far more successful than she is.
There is another element that I find to be important. I've pasted a link to another thread that explains it:
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...t=#post3549305
Love your life! Who cares?!
Cheryl
Last edited by Cheryl Ann Owens; 07-06-2014 at 12:44 PM. Reason: wrong link
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
Lol everyone!! I kinda stand out ya know hehe ooops!
I have a couple fake profiles on dating websites, so I have to imagine there are a few guys who look at my pictures and know I'm just a guy in dresses. Actually, one other site member did send me a message asking if I was "a male? For real doe. lol"
But, in real life, I only ever present as female at home and indoors, so I don't care.
My wife and I know my brother too. Maybe those people who see a tall woman walking out to the car on days I don't work may have figured it out. I don't really care.