I'm just wondering what others say, with a knowing SO, and you have a day off and when they come home from work, and they say what did you do today? Do you say I dressed as a girl, I played dress up, I got my girl on today or something else along those lines? I'm just not sure what other significant others feel comfortable with. My wife asks and no matter what I tell her she says "oh", it feels awkward for me no matter what I say.