This strikes one of my quandries, am I "doing" when enfemme, or "being"? I guess either way you'd be doing something if you trying to develop your look, but if you were being enfemme whilst doing something else, you'd talk about what you did not what you wore; any more than you'd cover preface what you did as a guy with what you were wearing?
Sorry I may have fallen into a linguistic/philosophical whirlpool there of my own making! But I'd never realised that point before, I am I doing or being...
Love
Ivie
