This question is most likely for those who only dress part-time; after all, those who dress full time or are transitioning/have transitioned dress all of the time anyway. So I guess this is kind of a "which came first?" question for us part-timers.
As for me, there are just times when I feel like dressing so I'd say that my mood dictates my actions. I seldom say to myself, "Gee, I need an attitude change so I'm going to pull on something girlie."
Others?
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